No, there is nothing in VSCode proper (no extensions) that will highlight an arbitrary regex. (Well, there is the Search feature, but the highlighting from that is temporary.)
Short of writing an extension or using an existing one that does this, the most capable method of highlight customization is the textMateRules mechanism of editor.tokenCustomizations in settings.json.
Now, the built-in TextMate grammar simply classifies "ext:div" as unrecognized, so the best possible with this approach is to change the highlighting for all unrecognized tags. That would look like this:
// https://code.visualstudio.com/docs/getstarted/themes
"editor.tokenColorCustomizations": {
"textMateRules": [
{
"scope": [
"meta.tag.other entity.name.tag",
],
"settings": {
"foreground": "#080",
"fontStyle": "bold",
},
},
],
},
Screenshot:

See also this answer that goes through the process of adding textMateRules in a bit more detail.