The question seems to be a bit confused.
I want to reduce the absolute execution time.
Do you mean elapsed time? Certainly use of the right data-structure will improve throughput, but for a given data-structure, the minmimum order of the algorithm is absolute, and nothing to do with how you implement the algorithm.
Which design pattern exist to realize....?
Design Patterns are something which code is, not a template for writing programs, and a useful tools for curriculum design. To start with a pattern and make your code fit it is in itself an anti-pattern.
Nobody can answer this question withuot knowing a lot more about your data and how its structured, however the key driver for efficiency will be the data-structure you use to implement your tree. If elapsed time is important then certainly look at parallel execution, however it may also be worth considering performing the operation in a different tool - databases are highly optimized for dealing with large sets of data, however note that the obvious method for describing a tree in a relational database is very inefficient when it comes to isolating sub-trees and walking the tree.
In response to Adam's suggesting of forking you replied:
I "heard" that pcntl isnt a good solution. Any experiences?
Where did you hear that? Certainly forking from a CGI or mod_php invoked script is a bad idea, but nothing wrong with doing it from the command line. Do have a google for long running PHP processes (be warned there is a lot of bad information out there). What code you write will vary depending on the underlying OS - which you've not stated.
I suspect that you could solve a large part of your performance issues by identifying which parts of the tree need to be checked and only checking those parts AND triggering the checks when the tree is updated, or at least marking the nodes as 'dirty'.
You might find these helpful:
http://mikehillyer.com/articles/managing-hierarchical-data-in-mysql/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Threaded_binary_tree
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