Well, I've never done it on Windows, but I have done it on a lot of the compile-link-rtl environments that served as the practical progenitors for it. What you do is first make stub "targets" without the cross-references then link, then add the circular references, then re-link. The linkers generally do not care about circular refs or following ref chains, they only care about being able to resolve each reference on it's own.
So if you have two libraries, A and B that need to reference each other, try something like this:
- Link A without any refs to B.
- Link B with refs to A.
- Link A, adding in the refs to B.
Dykam makes a good point, It's compile, not link in .Net, but the principle remains the same: Make your cross-referenced sources, with their exported entry points, but with all but one of them having their own references to the others stubbed out. Build them like that. Then, unstub the external references and rebuild them. This should work even without any special tools, in fact, this approach has worked on every operating system that I have ever tried it on (about 6 of them). Though obviously something that automates it would be a big help.