It depends on whether the control(s) you want to refresh are DataBound() or not.
In other words, can you force the control to reload by using a DataBind() method call to force the control to reload itself, with either the same or new data?
Most GUI controls have the DataBind() method, but it's useless if the control is not actually using data to work!
This is why in your case your panel is not "refreshed" with new data because using a DataBind() on the panel does nothing. Using a databind() on the entire GridView is a different story and should work. Maybe place an UPDATEPANEL around the whole lot? If you do you have to be careful your normal edits and other Commands on the rows will continue to work.
However, What you can do is place the modalpopupextender inside your TemplateField, and using a "trick", you can keep your server post backs and still fire the popup panel.
ie
<asp:UpdatePanel ID="upADDMAIN" runat="server" UpdateMode="Conditional">
<ContentTemplate>
<asp:Button ID="btnADD" runat="server" Text="NEW LOGIN" BackColor="Blue" Font-Bold="True" ForeColor="#FFFFCC" OnClick="btnADD_Click" />
<asp:Button ID="btnDUM" runat="server" style="display:none" />
<div style="height:20px">
</div>
<ajaxToolkit:ModalPopupExtender ID="mpeADD" runat="server"
targetcontrolid="btnDUM"
popupcontrolid="upADD"
backgroundcssclass="modelbackground">
</ajaxToolkit:ModalPopupExtender>
<asp:UpdatePanel ID="upAdd" runat="server" UpdateMode="Conditional">
<ContentTemplate>
<asp:Panel ID="pnlADD" runat="server" Width="700px" HorizontalAlign="Center" CssClass="auto-style10" Height="200px">
..
..
<div id="puFTR" class="auto-style17" style="vertical-align: middle">
<asp:Button id="btnOK" runat="server" Text="OK" style="width: 80px" OnClick="btnOK_Click" />
<asp:Button id="btnCAN" runat="server" Text="CANCEL" style="width: 80px" OnClick="btnCAN_Click" CausesValidation="False" />
</div>
</asp:Panel>
</ContentTemplate>
</asp:UpdatePanel>
</ContentTemplate>
</asp:UpdatePanel>
As you may see, the btnDUM control is a Dummy to get the MPE to work, but it's not actually used as it's hidden by the style="display:none" tag.
However, the btnADD does work because it calls a Click() method on the server side which does the refresh of data on your new row. You may have to use a little jScript to pass the ROWINDEX into the Click() method for it to work with a GridView.
Incidentally, the Click() method in my case "controls" the MPE manually...
protected void btnADD_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
ClearADDform();
mpeADD.Show();
}
protected void ClearADDform()
{
txtLOGIN.Text = string.Empty;
cbISActive.Checked = true;
txtPWD.Text = string.Empty;
ddlAgent.SelectedIndex = -1;
}
In my case, the above code example is outside a GridView, so you'll need to adjust.
But the point is, you can still have Server Side calls using Ajax popups!
Good luck.