I'm 100% aware of the pitfalls of the JVM and advances/strides that have been done in the JVM world for it to understand the ergonomics/resources of a container. Also, yes I know that Java by default tries to allocate 1/4 the RAM available in the environment it's running...
So I had some thoughts and questions. I have made a 50/50 rule. If my application needs 1GB of Xmx, then I create 2GB container which gives another 1GB of RAM for the JVM overhead and any container/swap stuff (though not sure how swap really works within a container).
So I was thinking if my application needs 6GB of Xmx do I really need to create 12GB container or can I get away with 7GB or 8GB container? How much headroom do we need to give inside the container when it comes to RAM?