Golang application with a client and server.
Server uses net.ListenUDP -- client also uses net.ListenUDP, connects to server and sends a packet with conn.WriteToUDP with the server address.
Server receives the packet with ReadFromUDP and grabs the return address. Using this return address, it then sends a large number of packets back to the client.
When running both client and server on local machine, this works perfectly. Using Wireshark I can inspect the UDP packets and see that they contain the source and destination ports - and in the application I can see that they arrive and my various checksum tests show the data is accurate.
I then moved the server off site to a remote machine. The application stops working. I can successfully send the first message from the client to server - this is received just fine. The server sends the response back 'toward' the client - but the client never receives them.
Using Wireshark, I can see that the packets do arrive back on the local machine with the correct IP address. It appears that my network router has performed NAT on the outgoing packets - and has correctly re-addressed response packets to the internal IP.. BUT there is no port.
So I have UDP packets arriving on the correct machine, but no port - so the client application does not receive them. Application times out on ReadFromUDP.
I don't know if it is relevant, but on local machine, Wireshark labels the packets as BT-uTP Utorrent packets. When they come in from remote server, this is what I see in Wireshark - note the lack of Port.
Any thoughts how I can solve this. I didn't think this was a UDP hole punching problem because although I am establishing a connection across a NAT it is with a server not a peer.