We have use case where user can send request to the server and if resource doesn't exist then must be created otherwise updated.
The right answer, in this case, is almost certainly going to be to POST
your request to the collection resource, and let the server figure out the "right" thing to do.
A resource can be created by sending a POST request to a URL that represents a collection of resources.
Using PUT
to create a resource assumes that the client can/should guess what the correct identifier for the new resource should be. If we're not giving the client that authority/control, then the request needs to instead use a stable target-uri, and the server computes the side effects on other resources.
In JSON:API, the server gets to control the choice of URI for the new item.
POST /photos HTTP/1.1
Content-Type: application/vnd.api+json
...
HTTP/1.1 201 Created
Location: http://example.com/photos/550e8400-e29b-41d4-a716-446655440000
If the API were supporting PUT semantics, an equivalent change would look
something like
PUT /photos/550e8400-e29b-41d4-a716-446655440000 HTTP/1.1
Content-Type: application/vnd.api+json
HTTP/1.1 201 Created
But JSON:API has decide that PUT isn't interesting yet. Reading between the lines, the authors decided that PUT
should be reserved until more implementations demonstrate that they understand the HTTP spec.
So instead you have POST to the collection for the create, and PATCH on the item to for partial or complete replacement.
That in turn implies that if the client doesn't/cannot know that a resource already exists, that it should POST to the collection. The server, in turn, should be aware that the resource may already exist, and do something sensible (replace the representation of the resource, redirect the client to the resource, etc). How the server achieves that would be an implementation detail.
Looking into Internet deal with REST HTTP methods I have never seen that PATCH can be used for resource creation therefore I am surprised that JsonApi forgo PUT method.
PATCH can certainly be used for resource creation -- see RFC 5789
If the Request-URI does not point to an existing resource, the server MAY create a new resource, depending on the patch document type (whether it can logically modify a null resource) and permissions, etc.
It's an uncommon choice, because PUT semantics are a better fit for that use case. Choosing to support PATCH, but not PUT, is weird.
I am surprised that JsonApi forgo PUT method
I am also surprised.
It might be possible to resolve your concerns by registering a new profile, encouraging the community to adopt a common pattern for the semantics that you need.