Committing after each document is an overkill for the performance, in any case it's quite strange that you had to resubmit anything from start if something goes wrong. I suggest to seriously to change the indexing strategy you're using instead of investigating in a different way to commit.
Given that, if you not have any other way that change the commit configuration, I suggest to configure autocommit in your Solr collection/index or use the parameter commitWithin, as suggested by @MatsLindh. Just be aware if the tool you're using has the chance to add this parameter.
autoCommit
These settings control how often pending updates will be automatically pushed to the index. An alternative to autoCommit is
to use commitWithin, which can be defined when making the update
request to Solr (i.e., when pushing documents), or in an update
RequestHandler.