We can write a function assuming you would only have dates which could be higher than the actual date and would have the same format always.
library(lubridate)
get_correct_date <- function(example_date) {
#Split vector on "/" and get 3 components (date, month, year)
vecs <- as.numeric(strsplit(example_date, "\\/")[[1]])
#Check number of days in that month
last_day_of_month <- days_in_month(vecs[2])
#If the input date is higher than actual number of days in that month
#replace it with last day of that month
if (vecs[1] > last_day_of_month)
vecs[1] <- last_day_of_month
#Paste the date components together to get new modified date
dmy(paste0(vecs, collapse = "/"))
}
get_correct_date("31/02/2018")
#[1] "2018-02-28"
get_correct_date("31/04/2018")
#[1] "2018-04-30"
get_correct_date("31/05/2018")
#[1] "2018-05-31"
With small modification you can adjust the dates if they have different format or even if some dates are smaller than the first date.