I want to visualize a listbox item highlighted when selected, regardless the focus of the parent listbox.
In this example I have two listboxes. In both listboxes the first (and only) element is selected. ListBox 1 does NOT have Focus. ListBox 2 does have focus. I want to have identical highlighting color.
How do I achieve this in a custom listbox / listboxitem style?

XAML. Have you tried anything yet? And could you show us? - Mike