If your table has relationship with other tables using its primary or foriegen key, may be it is impossible to alter your table. so you need to drop and create the table again.
To solve these problems you need to Generate Scripts by right click on the database and in advanced option set type of data to script to scheme and data. after that, using this script with the changing your column to identify and regenerate the table using run its query.
your query will be like here:
USE [Db_YourDbName]
GO
SET ANSI_NULLS ON
GO
SET QUOTED_IDENTIFIER ON
GO
Drop TABLE [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable]
CREATE TABLE [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable](
[ID] [int] IDENTITY(1,1) NOT NULL,
[Name] [nvarchar](50) NULL,
[Family] [nvarchar](150) NULL)
GO
SET IDENTITY_INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ON
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] ([ID], [Name], [Family]) VALUES (1,'name 1', 'family 1')
SET IDENTITY_INSERT [dbo].[Tbl_TourTable] off