I will name my firstborn after whoever answers my question!
My bot uses the Handover Protocol to transfer users from the bot (primary receiver) to the page's inbox (secondary receiver) after they tap on a 'chat with human' button, the problem is that I'm not getting any facebook notifications when the user starts messaging a human (page inbox).
Right now I'm having the bot email me anytime it transfers a user to a human but this fix obviously doesn't scale, ideally I would want facebook to send me notifications on my phone just like it does by default to pages that receive messages and don't have any bots installed.
I know I can see the messages sent to a human by using the 'standby' webhook but those are developer-side server logs, what I want are normal facebook notifications sent to the page owner and the people in the page's Roles so they reply to those messages instead of me (the developer) being the only one being notified through emails I have to send myself.
