As a consultant I have been seeing more and more large enterprises start initiatives using an industry buzzword known as Customer Identity and Access MAnagement (CIAM). One of the elements for these large organizations is the management of external users (or identities if you prefer). Those organizations are using LDAP based user directories to store identity information. These architectures do utilize SCIM, SAML, and OIDC standards for user provisioning and federation respectively. In our consulting we have seen many different LDAP servers for this purpose including Active Directory, AD-LDS, OpenLDAP, CA-LDAP, PingDirectory, etc. The key to the choice of the LDAP is the scale and performance parameters, so when making choices for the technology be sure to ask about repository size and compression, indexing speed and technical implementation, underlying data management, and data synchronization.
As for the shameless plug above, I am familiar with PingDirectory (formerly known as UnboundID), which a great product for scale and performance as there are features built into it that allow it to scale well. In fact it has roots in the telco industry where there are implementations in the tens of millions of customer users. As part of your analysis to determine which technology works best for your use cases, I would take a look at that product.