You can configure proxy protocol for your ELB to get connection related information. In case of HTTP the ELB adds headers telling about the client information, in case of TCP however, AWS ELB simply passes through the headers from the client without any modifications, this causes the back end server to lose client connection information as it is happening in your case.
To enable proxy control for your ELB, you will have to do it via API, there is currently no way to do it via UI.
http://docs.aws.amazon.com/ElasticLoadBalancing/latest/DeveloperGuide/enable-proxy-protocol.html
The above doc is a step-by-step guide on how to do this, I don't want to paste the same here as that information might change over time.
EDIT:
As it turns out, Amazon implements Version 1 of the proxy protocol only which does not give away SSL information. It does however give port numbers which was requested by the client and a process can be developed stating something like if the request was over port 443 then it was SSL. I don't like it as it is indirect, requires hardocoding and coordination between devops and developers... seems to be the only way for now...lets hope AWS ELB starts supporting Version 2 of the proxy protocol which does have SSL info soon.