For both pylearn2 and caffe, your labels will need to be 0-4 instead of 1-5...it's just the way they work. The output layer will be 5 units, each is a essentially a logistic unit...and the softmax can be thought of as an adaptor that normalizes the final outputs. But "softmax" is commonly used as an output type. When training, the value of any individual unit is rarely ever exactly 0.0 or 1.0...it's always a distribution across your units - which log-loss can be calculated on. This loss is used to compare against the "perfect" case and the error is back-propped to update your network weights. Note that a raw output from PL2 or Caffe is not a specific digit 0,1,2,3, or 5...it's 5 number, each associated to the likelihood of each of the 5 classes. When classifying, one just takes the class with the highest value as the 'winner'.
I'll try to give an example...
say I have a 3 class problem, I train a network with a 3 unit softmax.
the first unit represents the first class, second the second and third, third.
Say I feed a test case through and get...
0.25, 0.5, 0.25 ...0.5 is the highest, so a classifier would say "2". this is the softmax output...it makes sure the sum of the output units is one.