Here's the deal:
Wordpress website: http://www.spectrum-aerospace.com/services/engineering/
On the mentioned link the Engineering tab has the selected state (mouse hover the tab Services please). As you can see I have another menu on the right.
What I want is that the selected state of "Engineering" on the Main menu also affects the widget menu so I have the "selected" style information on both menus.
The bottom end is that they are different menus so I'm kinda stuck in here.