First have a converter which will compare reference of two objects say ObjectEqualsConverter
public class ObjectEqualsConverter : IMultiValueConverter
{
#region IMultiValueConverter
public object Convert(object[] values, Type targetType, object parameter,
CultureInfo culture)
{
return values[0] == values[1];
}
public object[] ConvertBack(object value, Type[] targetTypes, object parameter,
CultureInfo culture)
{
throw new NotImplementedException();
}
#endregion
}
And in XAML file, use converter to check if current item is same as highlighted item in ViewModel and in case converter returns true set the color of control using trigger-
<ItemsControl ItemsSource="{Binding Items}">
<ItemsControl.ItemTemplate>
<DataTemplate>
<myUserControl x:Name="myControl" />
<DataTemplate.Triggers>
<DataTrigger Value="True">
<DataTrigger.Binding>
<MultiBinding Converter="{StaticResource ObjectEqualsConverter}">
<Binding/>
<Binding Path="DataContext.HighlightedItem" RelativeSource="{RelativeSource Mode=FindAncestor, AncestorType=ItemsControl}"/>
</MultiBinding>
</DataTrigger.Binding>
<Setter TargetName="myControl" Property="Background" Value="Red"/>
</DataTrigger>
</DataTemplate.Triggers>
</DataTemplate>
</ItemsControl.ItemTemplate>
</ItemsControl>
Make sure you add converter as a resource in your xaml file.