For circles detection, use HoughCircles.
Then here you are just looking for simplified polygons (triangles and squares). Have you tried tweaking epsilon in approxPolyDP?
Here is an example snippet from the openCV squares.cpp sample code - see how approximation accuracy (epsilon, the third parameter of approxPolyDP), is set relative to the size of the contour.
C++ code, but the openCV interface should be the same, so I'm sure it's straightforward to adapt to your environment.
// test each contour
for( size_t i = 0; i < contours.size(); i++ )
{
// approximate contour with accuracy proportional
// to the contour perimeter
approxPolyDP(Mat(contours[i]), approx,
arcLength(Mat(contours[i]), true)*0.02, true);
// square contours should have 4 vertices after approximation
// relatively large area (to filter out noisy contours)
// and be convex.
// Note: absolute value of an area is used because
// area may be positive or negative - in accordance with the
// contour orientation
if( approx.size() == 4 &&
fabs(contourArea(Mat(approx))) > 1000 &&
isContourConvex(Mat(approx)) )
{
double maxCosine = 0;
for( int j = 2; j < 5; j++ )
{
// find the maximum cosine of the angle between joint edges
double cosine = fabs(angle(approx[j%4], approx[j-2], approx[j-1]));
maxCosine = MAX(maxCosine, cosine);
}
// if cosines of all angles are small
// (all angles are ~90 degree) then write quandrange
// vertices to resultant sequence
if( maxCosine < 0.3 )
squares.push_back(approx);
}
}