I am having a huge problem attempting to grasp your question.
From what I can tell when a user refreshes the page, say 6 hours later, it should show not only the results that were there but also the results that are there now.
As @JohnnyHK says MongoDB does "live" sorting naturally whereby this would be the case and MongoDB, for your queries would give you back the right results.
Now I think one problem you might trying to get at here (the question needs clarification, massively) is that due to the data change the last _id you saw might no longer truely represent the page numbers etc or even the diversity of the information, i.e. the last _id you saw is now in fact half way through page 13.
These sorts of things you would probably spend more time and performance trying to solve than just letting the user understand that they have been AFAK for a long time.
Edit
Aha, I think I see what your trying to do now, your trying to be sneaky by getting both the page and the last item in the list at the same time. Unfortunately just like SQL this is not possible. Even if sort worked like that the sort would not function like it should since you can only sort one way on a single field.
However for future reference the sort() function is exactly that on a cursor and until you actually open the cursor by starting to iterate it calling sort() multiple times will just overwrite the cursor property.
I am afraid that this has to be done with two queries, so you get your page first and then client side (I think your looking for the max of that page) scroll through the records to find the last _id or just do a second query to get the last _id. It should be super dupa fast.