You are getting into hypotheticals with these answers, so I will try to make a simpler, more down to earth explanation for clarity's sake.
The basic relationships of object oriented design are two:
IS-A and HAS-A. I did not make those up. That is what they are called.
IS-A indicates that a particular object identifies as being of the class that is above it in a class hierarchy. A banana object is a fruit object if it is a subclass of the fruit class. This means that anywhere a fruit class can be used, a banana can be used. It is not reflexive , though. You can not substitute a base class for a specific class if that specific class is called for.
Has-a indicated that an object is part of a composite class and that there is an ownership relationship. It means in C++ that it is a member object and as such the onus is on the owning class to dispose of it or hand ownership off before destructing itself.
These two concepts are easier to realize in single-inheritance languages than in a multiple inheritance model like c++, but the rules are essentially the same. The complication comes when the class identity is ambiguous, such as passing a Banana class pointer into a function that takes a Fruit class pointer.
Virtual functions are, firstly, a run-time thing. It is part of polymorphism in that it is used to decide which function to run at the time it is called in the running program.
The virtual keyword is a compiler directive to bind functions in a certain order if there is ambiguity about the class identity. Virtual functions are always in parent classes (as far as I know) and indicate to the compiler that binding of member functions to their names should take place with the subclass function first and the parent class function after.
A Fruit class could have a virtual function color() that returns "NONE" by default.
The Banana class color() function returns "YELLOW" or "BROWN".
But if the function taking a Fruit pointer calls color() on the Banana class sent to it -- which color() function gets invoked?
The function would normally call Fruit::color() for a Fruit object.
That would 99% of the time not be what was intended.
But if Fruit::color() was declared virtual then Banana:color() would be called for the object because the correct color() function would be bound to the Fruit pointer at the time of the call.
The runtime will check what object the pointer points to because it was marked virtual in the Fruit class definition.
This is different than overriding a function in a subclass. In that case
the Fruit pointer will call Fruit::color() if all it knows is that it IS-A pointer to Fruit.
So now to the idea of a "pure virtual function" comes up.
It is a rather unfortunate phrase as purity has nothing to do with it. It means that it is intended that the base class method is never to be called.
Indeed a pure virtual function can not be called. It must still be defined, however. A function signature must exist. Many coders make an empty implementation {} for completeness, but the compiler will generate one internally if not. In that case when the function is called even if the pointer is to Fruit , Banana::color() will be called as it is the only implementation of color() there is.
Now the final piece of the puzzle: constructors and destructors.
Pure virtual constructors are illegal, completely. That is just out.
But pure virtual destructors do work in the case that you want to forbid the creation of a base class instance. Only sub classes can be instantiated if the destructor of the base class is pure virtual.
the convention is to assign it to 0.
virtual ~Fruit() = 0; // pure virtual
Fruit::~Fruit(){} // destructor implementation
You do have to create an implementation in this case. The compiler knows this is what you are doing and makes sure you do it right, or it complains mightily that it can not link to all the functions it needs to compile. The errors can be confusing if you are not on the right track as to how you are modeling your class hierarchy.
So you are forbidden in this case to create instances of Fruit, but allowed to create instances of Banana.
A call to delete of the Fruit pointer that points to an instance of Banana
will call Banana::~Banana() first and then call Fuit::~Fruit(), always.
Because no matter what, when you call a subclass destructor, the base class destructor must follow.
Is it a bad model? It is more complicated in the design phase, yes, but it can ensure that correct linking is performed at run-time and that a subclass function is performed where there is ambiguity as to exactly which subclass is being accessed.
If you write C++ so that you only pass around exact class pointers with no generic nor ambiguous pointers, then virtual functions are not really needed.
But if you require run-time flexibility of types (as in Apple Banana Orange ==> Fruit ) functions become easier and more versatile with less redundant code.
You no longer have to write a function for each type of fruit, and you know that every fruit will respond to color() with its own correct function.
I hope this long-winded explanation solidifies the concept rather than confuses things. There are a lot of good examples out there to look at,
and look at enough and actually run them and mess with them and you will get it.