I'm having a problem styling my ListBox selection background. I used ListView originally, it was less problematic with styling but moving this to Silverlight app, I found out that it doesn't have ListView so I just used ListBox.
I want my app to be easily ported in Silverlight and also in Windows Phone so I used ListBox and now am having a trouble with the style.
My Metro app has Dark theme and I have custom ListBoxItem but am not sure why when I clicked on it, it looks like this

originally when using ListView, it looks like this

adding background color in my custom ItemsTemplate make it look this

How do I get rid of that White background and also restyle the item when hovered because it looks like this


this my XAML for listbox so far
<ListBox Grid.Row="3" Name="lvSubmeters" VerticalAlignment="Top" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" SelectedItem="{Binding Path=SelectedListViewItem, Mode=TwoWay}" SelectedIndex="{Binding Path=SelectedListViewIndex, Mode=TwoWay}" ItemTemplate="{StaticResource SubmeterItems}" ItemsSource="{Binding Path=Store.AllItems}" Background="{x:Null}" Foreground="White">
<ListBox.ItemContainerStyle>
<Style TargetType="ListBoxItem">
<Setter Property="HorizontalContentAlignment" Value="Stretch" />
<Setter Property="Background" Value="Transparent" />
<Setter Property="Foreground" Value="White" />
<Setter Property="Margin" Value="0" />
</Style>
</ListBox.ItemContainerStyle>
</ListBox>
and also if you want my custom ItemsTemplate
<DataTemplate x:Name="SubmeterItems">
<Grid VerticalAlignment="Top" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Margin="5,5,5,5">
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition Width="166"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="100*"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="200"/>
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<StackPanel Grid.Column="0" VerticalAlignment="Top">
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding MeterID}" FontSize="24" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="#FF429AA3" />
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding Fullname}" FontSize="16" />
</StackPanel>
<StackPanel Grid.Column="1" VerticalAlignment="Top" Height="95">
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text=" " FontSize="24" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="#FF429AA3" />
<Grid>
<Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<ColumnDefinition Width="100"/>
<ColumnDefinition Width="29*"/>
</Grid.ColumnDefinitions>
<StackPanel Grid.Column="0">
<TextBlock Grid.Column="0" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="Last Reading:" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" />
<TextBlock Grid.Column="0" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="New Reading:" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" />
<TextBlock Grid.Column="0" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="KW/H Used:" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" />
</StackPanel>
<StackPanel Grid.Column="1">
<TextBlock Grid.Column="1" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding LastReading}" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" FontWeight="Bold" />
<TextBlock Grid.Column="1" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding NewReading}" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" FontWeight="Bold" />
<TextBlock Grid.Column="1" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding KwHUsed}" FontSize="14" Margin="0,0,5,5" FontWeight="Bold" />
</StackPanel>
</Grid>
</StackPanel>
<StackPanel Grid.Column="2" VerticalAlignment="Bottom" HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" Background="Black">
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding KwhUsedAmount}" FontSize="20" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="Red" TextAlignment="Right" Margin="0,0,5,0" />
<StackPanel Orientation="Horizontal" HorizontalAlignment="Right">
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="+" FontSize="20" Foreground="#99FF0000" TextAlignment="Right" Margin="0,0,5,0"/>
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding AdditionalCharges}" FontSize="20" Foreground="#99FF0000" TextAlignment="Right" Margin="0,0,5,0"/>
</StackPanel>
<TextBlock HorizontalAlignment="Stretch" VerticalAlignment="Top" Text="{Binding TotalAmount}" FontSize="34" FontWeight="Bold" Foreground="Green" TextAlignment="Right" Margin="0,0,5,0" />
</StackPanel>
</Grid>
</DataTemplate>
I tried taking this to Blend 4 but I can't find the way to do it.