I have been trying to get to grips with Hibernate's inverse attribute, and it seems to be just one of those things that is conceptually difficult.
The gist that I get is that when you have a parent entity (e.g. Parent) that has a collection of Child objects using a one-to-many mapping, setting inverse=true on the mapping tells Hibernate that 'the other side (the Child) has responsibility to update itself to maintain the foreign key reference in its table'.
Doing this appears to have 2 benefits when it comes to adding Children to the collection in your code, and then saving the Parent (with cascade-all set): you save an unneccessary hit on the database (because without inverse set, Hibernate thinks it has two places to update the FK relationship), and according to the official docs:
If the column of a association is declared NOT NULL, NHibernate may cause constraint violations when it creates or updates the association. To prevent this problem, you must use a bidirectional association with the many valued end (the set or bag) marked as inverse="true".
This all seems to make sense so far. What I don't get is this: when would you NOT want to use inverse=true on a one-to-many relationship?