Probably it is belated answer, but I want to share with my findings. I found 2 new approaches to this problem that I have not found here in the answers:
Inner border through box-shadow css property
Yes, box-shadow is used to add box-shadows to the elements. But you can specify inset shadow, that would look like a inner border rather like a shadow. You just need to set horizontal and vertical shadows to 0px, and the "spread" property of the box-shadow to the width of the border you want to have. So for the 'inner' border of 10px you would write the following:
div{
width:100px;
height:100px;
background-color:yellow;
box-shadow:0px 0px 0px 10px black inset;
margin-bottom:20px;
}
Here is jsFiddle example that illustrates the difference between box-shadow border and 'normal' border. This way your border and the box width are of total 100px including the border.
More about box-shadow:here
Border through outline css property
Here is another approach, but this way the border would be outside of the box. Here is an example.
As follows from the example, you can use css outline property, to set the border that does not affect the width and height of the element. This way, the border width is not added to the width of an element.
div{
width:100px;
height:100px;
background-color:yellow;
outline:10px solid black;
}
More about outline: here