UPDATE:
let me sum up what i have done so far. I updated my smartphone to 4.0.4 because of android beam. The following site allows one to send and receive NDEF Messages: http://www.grundid.de/nfc/ndef-applet.html
that worked perfectly for me.
After that i was able to write an little app which sends NDEF Tags over an P2P connection.
There is only one topic left: Create a desktop based application to receive the tags. I implemented the following example from github.com :
that worked also well. But i just dont know what happens behind the example. The example class uses a package (jar) consisting of *.class files. Its the same as using the applett. My aim is to create code by my self. A complete project.
So is there a way, to receive ndef tags (over p2p) in .net? or java? this is what iam looking for.
Next Steps:
i will try to use the Winscard.dll:
http://www.aspfree.com/c/a/.NET/Smart-Cards-in-.NET/
but it seems to be only for SDCards and have nothing to do with NFC.
Have you any suggestions or tips to achieve my gaols? that would be wonderful.
Thank you.
Berry